There Really Is a One-Minute “Marriage Cleanse”?

2020-04-08T11:55:46+00:00

There Really Is a One-Minute "Marriage Cleanse"? And it can work for all relationships? Hey, how about a date night this week with your spouse or loved one?  What, you’re scheduled to work? OK, then how about tomorrow?  Sarah has a soccer tournament? Gee whiz! Oh yeah, and next week is the church picnic. [...]

There Really Is a One-Minute “Marriage Cleanse”?2020-04-08T11:55:46+00:00

Are You in Love With a Controlling Perfectionist?

2020-04-08T11:51:15+00:00

Are You in Love With a Controlling Perfectionist? What to do when Mr. Perfect turns into a controlling nightmare This guy is amazing! Diligent, hard-working, attentive, he always seems to say and do the right things. As the relationship progresses however, there appears to be a darker side to his controlled and reserved nature. [...]

Are You in Love With a Controlling Perfectionist?2020-04-08T11:51:15+00:00

The Narcissistic Wound

2020-03-04T11:00:27+00:00

Dr. Lavender’s latest from Psychology Today The Narcissistic Wound The first cut is always the deepest. In this “Impossible to Please” blog, we have been presenting information about individuals with Personality Disorders and how their behaviors can be detrimental in both personal relationships and in the workplace. The vast majority of our postings talk about these [...]

The Narcissistic Wound2020-03-04T11:00:27+00:00

The Vicious Cycle of Sex and Affection

2019-09-27T07:47:20+00:00

The Vicious Cycle of Sex and Affection By Dr. Neil J. Lavender Reprinted from Psychology Today In my last blog, I introduced the topic of the vicious cycle; nasty little pieces of business where attempts to fix a problem in marriage only lead to making problems worse and prolonging them. There are many [...]

The Vicious Cycle of Sex and Affection2019-09-27T07:47:20+00:00

Want to Have the Best Sex of Your Life?

2019-02-14T06:52:05+00:00

Want to Have the Best Sex of Your Life? By Neil J. Lavender, PhD. Want great sex? Here's something you probably overlooked. And no, it's not an article about personal hygiene. Read on. Source: Photo by Shutterstock. Used by permission. Reprinted from Psychology Today It was just a blog or two ago that I [...]

Want to Have the Best Sex of Your Life?2019-02-14T06:52:05+00:00