The Narcissistic Wound

2020-03-04T11:00:27+00:00

Dr. Lavender’s latest from Psychology Today The Narcissistic Wound The first cut is always the deepest. In this “Impossible to Please” blog, we have been presenting information about individuals with Personality Disorders and how their behaviors can be detrimental in both personal relationships and in the workplace. The vast majority of our postings talk about these [...]

The Narcissistic Wound2020-03-04T11:00:27+00:00

The Vicious Cycle of Sex and Affection

2019-09-27T07:47:20+00:00

The Vicious Cycle of Sex and Affection By Dr. Neil J. Lavender Reprinted from Psychology Today In my last blog, I introduced the topic of the vicious cycle; nasty little pieces of business where attempts to fix a problem in marriage only lead to making problems worse and prolonging them. There are many [...]

The Vicious Cycle of Sex and Affection2019-09-27T07:47:20+00:00

3 Sins Your Marriage Counselor Should Never Commit

2018-05-09T21:47:42+00:00

Dr. Lavender’s latest from Psychology Today The 3 Sins Your Marriage Counselor Should Never Commit Sin Number One: Your Marriage Counselor Acts as a Referee between the Two of You. Guess what? Marriage is hard, real hard. In marriage, one must try to love and support someone who is basically driving them crazy. It is true [...]

3 Sins Your Marriage Counselor Should Never Commit2018-05-09T21:47:42+00:00